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Барбара размышляет о значении простых повседневных забот и уборки как способе обрести мир и порядок в жизни.


Сезонные работы и забота о доме

После ремонта водопровода Барбара занялась уборкой студии, заменив старый коврик на новый тёплый красноватый. Она очищала дом, включая энергичную мойку давлением и прочистку желобов — необходимые работы на побережье из-за роста плесени. Она посадила ирисы, устойчивые к соли и ветру, и избегаемые оленями.

Забота о себе через порядок

В молодости Барбара была нетерпеливой, перегруженной требованиями как мать, жена и работающая женщина. Теперь она находит спокойствие в упорядочении дома, уборке и заботе о вещах. Эти простые действия — прогулки с собаками, стирка, приготовление еды — помогают ей успокоить нервы и помнить, что она может только делать то, что её дело: писать, любить семью и друзей, жить с миром в сердце среди бури истории.


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Keeping My Side of the Street Clean

Источник: https://barbaraoneal.substack.com/p/keeping-my-side-of-the-street-clean

We’ve had the most astonishing summer days in Bandon this week. Monday was the hottest day of the year—seventy-five degrees!—with barely any wind and not a cloud anywhere. My husband came in from running errands and said, “We should go downtown and have ice cream.”

So we wandered out, blinking into the bright light, and sat on the boardwalk eating our cones and watching the seals. I had forgotten how it feels for the sun to burn through my T-shirt and scorch the top of my head. The pier was packed, end to end, with crabbers. Seagulls waited opportunistically. A woman talked loudly on her phone, but even that wasn’t all that bothersome.

We ducked into the bookstore, and I bought a book on surfing—the sport I’ll never do but love passionately, like an armchair football coach with a beer belly and a bad foot.

Yesterday was another warm day, and we tackled house chores. Neal cleaned the garage (a big task, let me tell you—why is it so easy to ignore garage messes?) and I tackled my studio. I’d planned to wait until after revisions on this book, but I might not have time before I go to Morocco (Morocco! Again! Hooray!). And then there’s that pesky little hand surgery coming up—one that will make my life so much better but leave me unable to do any massive cleaning.

So I hauled all the furniture and easel and carts out to remove the old rug, ragged on the edges and never quite big enough. I laid out the new one, a warm reddish color that will eventually get spattered with paint, and will keep the room much cozier. More to the point, my chair won’t get stuck on the edge all day long, creating those tiny moments of annoyance.

All this cleaning followed the repair of a water main break, which at least gave me new planting areas after the workers hauled away a pile of unwanted rock. I planted irises—impervious to salt and wind, shunned by deer because they’re poisonous. We had the power-washing guy come, and the gutter-cleaning person (the same person, actually). I’ve never power washed a house in my life, but apparently it’s essential on the coast—and now that I’ve seen the mold that grows here, I understand.

Tending to things matters.

When I was a young woman—impatient, overwhelmed by all the calls to do more than any single mother, wife, and working woman could possibly manage—I was often annoyed by the tedious tasks of ordinary living. Yet even then, I found a quiet satisfaction in getting the house clean: sweeping and polishing the stairs, washing the cupboard doors, changing every sheet in the house.

Yesterday afternoon, despite my slightly irritated lower back, I felt pleased. At peace. Things are in order. We are ready for the rains.

And as they say in the rooms, it’s a way to keep my side of the street clean. In the midst of all the madness and the things I can’t control, I can stand here—in my clean house, with the husband I enjoy—and be happy anyway.

Walking the dogs. Washing the sheets. Cooking a meal I love. All of these are ways to ease my jangled nerves and remember that I only have now, and that I can only do what is mine to do: write, love my family and friends (and you, dear readers), and center myself in peace, even as the wild winds of history whirl like a tornado all around us.

As the season shifts in your world, what’s coming up for you? Do you have rituals for the season changing, or particular tasks that give you peace?

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